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At least 1 in 6 men have had unwanted sexual experiences, including abuse and assault. 1BlueString is a campaign* that asks guitarists to replace one of their six strings with a blue string to support them.
We are inviting you to help SHARPP get the message out here at UNH!
The goal is to build a community of encouragement and hope for men and their loved ones, partners, family, and friends.
Here are some facts*:
- Boys and men can be sexually used or abused, and it has nothing to do with how masculine they are.
- If a boy liked the attention he was getting, or got sexually aroused during abuse, or even sometimes wanted the attention or sexual contact, this does not mean he wanted or liked being manipulated or abused, or that any part of what happened, in any way, was his responsibility or fault.
- Sexual abuse harms boys and girls in ways that are similar and different, but equally harmful.
- The sexual abuse of boys has nothing to do with an abuser’s sexual orientation.
- A boy abused by a male is not necessarily gay, nor was he abused because he’s gay, nor can the abuse make him gay.
- Girls and women can sexually abuse boys. The boys are not “lucky,” but exploited and harmed.
- Most boys who are sexually abused will not go on to sexually abuse others.