FAQ for Parents and Families
FAQ for Parents and Families
Frequently Asked Questions
My son/daughter is entering UNH as a first year student. Should I be talking with them about anything specific regarding drinking?
Yes. The NH Higher Education Alcohol and Other Drug Committee and the Office of Health Education and Promotion, UNH Health Services have put together two pamphlets that suggest how to communicate to your son/daughter about alcohol and other drugs.
- A Family Guide to Conversations About College: Alcohol and Other Drug Use
- A Family Guide: Exploring the Realities at the University of New Hampshire
What do I do if I think my son/daughter is drinking too much, or using drugs?
First, try to discuss your concerns with them. The most effective approach is to show your concern. Use "I" statements as much as possible. This will cut down on their possible defensiveness and allow them to process how their drinking or using is affecting you. Be supportive, but firm with your expectations of their use of alcohol and/or other drugs.
Does UNH offer support for parents and students?
Yes, Office of Health Education and Promotion has an Alcohol, Tobacco and Other Drug Educator/Counselor with many years experience working with young adults and their parents. The educator/counselor is available to meet with parents or discuss their concerns over the phone. After the initial consultation, it will be determined what the next best step would be for the parent to take.
UNH students may receive free counseling, education and support from our office. This service is available to all students who have paid their health fee. All counseling is confidential between the counselor and the student. This mean your son/daughter needs to consent in writing to allow any communication to occur between the counselor and the parent.
The Counseling Center staff is also available to talk with parents or students.
