Darlene
Darlene is a checker in Stillings Dining Hall at UNH. She has been a food service worker for UNH Dining Services for eight years. Darlene lives in Brentwood, New Hampshire with her husband, Russell, and their daughter, Ashley.
"Always remember I love you:" I tell my daughter that every day. I ask
her, "What do I always want you to know?" And she'll say, "that you love
me." If that's all she remembers...
Ashley and I go bike riding, roller skating. I'm on my ten-speed, she's on
her little old bicycle with training wheels. We get out there and play
basketball, run around the house, ice skate. I want her to stay healthy.
I'm a food service worker. Julie Yates, God bless her heart. She's the
manager. She had confidence in me before I had confidence in myself. She
treated me like a person, just like anybody else walking in the door. I
had other interviews with people saying to me, "If you had two hands, I'd
hire you on the spot." She didn't let none of that bother her.
I like people. I love them. I like to talk to them. I know the people that
are new versus the people that come in every day. I ask them their name,
where they live, how many people in their family, their momma and daddy.
You can even tell when one of them is angry. I ask, "What's wrong dear,
you ain't yourself today." They tell me their problems.
I've got to figure out exactly what I want to do with my life. I want more
responsibility in my job. I could be a manager just as good as anybody
else could be a manager. I'd probably be a pretty good one because I want
to treat them as I want to be treated. That's what a lot of people don't
understand.
I lived in such a bad neighborhood that I didn't have many friends. A lot
of drugs, a lot of girls having babies. I didn't want any part of that. I
just stayed in my room to sing and write songs and stuff like that. But I
didn't get any encouragement. Because I liked country music I was "whacked
out" because I'm black and they said I shouldn't like that kind of music.
So now that I'm older, I'm pursuing what I want to do. I like to go out
singing, to karaoke, variety shows, talent shows. I don't want to be
Whitney Houston or Dolly Parton. You get this feeling in you and you can
put it in a song.
I wanted to be a great guitar player, so I was really, really upset,
because it was my hand and you need two hands to do that. When I was young
we didn't have a lot of money to do stuff, but my husband bought me a
guitar. I think I would have been good by now. You know, I'm just a jean
and boot person.
A lot of people feel just because I have one arm, I can't do a lot. I can
do anything anybody else can do. It might take me a little longer. I can
be in a store and I can be pushing a buggy and someone comes up to me, "Do
you need help?" No, thank you. They offer me the six winning Megabucks
numbers, I'd take that.
Interview by Lauren Harris (1995) | Photograph by Eileen Raleigh
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